maternity items to wear for the maid of the brides

Could I have a pp please
I'm currently 41 weeks pregnant with baby no.3 had 2 sweeps and been 3 cms dilated since Monday with irregular contractions on and off I'm so tired and just looking for any ideas how to dilate faster please iv been on the birth ball non stop lol tried sex oh won't anymore since midwife said she could feel baby's head yesterday haha just feeling deflated and fed up now as I have spd and I'm in a lot of pain so the sooner the better really thanks in advance maternity items to wear for the maid of the brides :) xxxx